It is a heavy load, that's normal. It really draws, or sparks if you jump it.
The plugs are pretty simple and they are special. Mine were rotted and I've never seen replacements.
Going from memory, the two pin connector is positive, up or down, the single is ground.
If the key isn't doing anything, its usually the safety switch. The circuit doesn't complete unless the drivers side latch is closed properly, it completes ground.
I used to sump it with a battery charger, I think I have the polarity right, I've never seen any sort of fuse thing in the wiring.