The important thing is start with a smaller bit and LIGHT pressure. Let the bit do the cutting (with the engine runnng). I used two smaller bits, 3/16" and 5/16" before finally using the "R" bit.
If you can't find an "R" bit, I can get you one, but you'll need to send me $13 to cover the bit & shipping. PM me if you want one. You should be able to find up there. Check at auto parts stores or industrial hardware suppliers.