It's a bit of an investment, but if you're reasonably handy with a computer, EFILive Will give you total control and you can load 5 tunes. I haven't played with it recently, but you should be able to get a thermocouple involved in that so you can keep EGTs down. I know people hate the banks stuff because it doesn't make maximum power. But for me, who bought a 3-year-old truck and wants it to keep it forever, the way that it defuels to keep the temperatures down is priceless. At the last thing I want to do is pull the cab to replace the turbo. It was on the truck when I bought it, and I kept it. But I still use EFI live to tweak things and shut off warnings when certain things are disabled
I had an LB7, and I put five tunes in it with a switch back in the day. And it would absolutely tear ass. The problem was, it didn't take into account all of the other sensors. I ended up eating head gaskets and injectors. But I'm not sure that has anything to do with the software. I'm sure there are a million people that will chime in here but these are the left and right lateral limits. Either you pay for the thing that is very well tested, or you pay for the thing that will absolutely not let you hurt your truck and transmission. There's definitely some middle ground in there for you to explore, but these are the options. And from what I understand, which you can find in some other recent posts, there's another brand out there that makes a model just like a Cadillac CTS that seems to be making ECMs die. I wouldn't go that route.
No matter what solution you choose, I would make sure and get one that will defuel the engine if the turbocharger is going to get to the point where it will melt the fins. I fly for a living, and I know what that does. Bad bad bad. Not a several million dollar problem in your case, but you can't fight thermodynamics.
If you're going to stud the heads, you can put a bigger turbo on there with more presure because it'll work. And you could tune it pretty well with EFI life. Or you could pay somebody to give you a tune. You've got a great truck with known mechanical failures that you obviously are going to correct. The world is your oyster.