long story short i put in new l.e.d. lights and my blinker is crazy fast, i switched to a electronic flasher and it is still fast. anyone know where to get a flasher that will slow it down?

Check out www.truck-lite.com. They have turn sig flashers for led lights. Your flasher is fast because it thinks that you have a bulb burnt out. Typical flashers need a set amount of "load" to operate and led's just don't draw enough electricity to make them work.

Truck Pro should have something to suit your fancy also. As Daver stated, trucklite manufactures a flasher that will run with LED/ incandesant combination. Truck Pro should have a location in your area, or you could try a truck stop, they have them most of the time.